A reader sent me the following message the other day: “Would move heaven and earth and all celestial planes in between to hear your take on this” My take? First, like all social-media bangers, it’s vastly exaggerated and lacks context. Two adults working can easily keep a house clean. We expect one adult working to […]
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Let me tell you a tale of two men. The first man wants to meet women, so he learns pickup. Invests time and money into becoming more attractive, better at speaking with women, and leading an interesting life. By all accounts, he accomplishes his goal and gets really good at meeting and attracting women. 2
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New clients are generally terrified to share with me. Most of the time, it’s stuff they’ve never said out loud before and now they’re telling a stranger, often within 15 minutes of us first speaking. Talking about sex, relationships, and problems with women is something society has conditioned us into thinking is taboo. And now
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A reader asks: What’s your advice to guys who keep getting in relationships that go nowhere? I keep dating the wrong chicks or women who aren’t ready for a relationship. From what I gathered from further questions, this guy is successful but still in the young man partying phase, so he attracts a specific type.
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I had a story relayed to me yesterday about a guy who we will call Kyle. Kyle is struggling. He was homeschooled and got constant validation from his parents that he was never weaned off of. As a result, he is extremely insecure. In social situations, he commonly brings up the hot girls he’s sleeping
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A very interesting chart outlining stated and revealed preferences among men and women turned up on my X feed this morning. It’s a shame that these were aggregated together among men and women rather than broken down. But I think actually what is most remarkable about it is how — for the most part —
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I can’t remember where I saw this on the timeline a few weeks ago. But it was something like the title of this email suggests: guy finds homemade porn of his girlfriend with an ex. She’s moaning and doing the whole nine yards. Pretty jarring. Understandably, the guy is wondering what to do. Should he
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Most people reading the title probably wonder how this is even a question. Obviously you don’t want a “stressful” relationship. Your relationship should be easy. But the truth is that not all stress is created equally. When we say “I’m stressed,” we tend to mean things aren’t going well. It usually means that we feel
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I don’t talk about business often, but looking back on my first couple months back in biz, there are a few lessons I want to point to. I had a lot of clients from before I went away renewing with me, but also some new clients signing up. Of the 4 new clients that signed
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Those of you who’ve been following me the past few years know my January 6th arrest story. Most of you also know from my prison emails (book coming out SOON), what life was like behind bars. But I haven’t talked a lot about the psychological effects of the political persecution – the stress and frankly trauma
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