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I Love All My Clients

Last week was a good week.  I got two amazing testimonials that I need to share with you today.  First we’ve got a guy who found the lady of his dreams. “Man you have been more than a real brother to me. Looking back to when we started our work I was an anxious wussy […]

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How Anger Saves Your Relationship

So I saw something pretty embarrassing on X the other day — something unfortunately a little too a common. It was Christian account, which posted a video of a woman picking a fight and berating her husband, and unsurprisingly, the husband was basically just taking it. The caption was extremely submissive: “The only answer is,

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Should You Retire Your Wife?

A reader sent me the following message the other day: “Would move heaven and earth and all celestial planes in between to hear your take on this” My take? First, like all social-media bangers, it’s vastly exaggerated and lacks context. Two adults working can easily keep a house clean. We expect one adult working to

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Men… Which One Is You?

Let me tell you a tale of two men. The first man wants to meet women, so he learns pickup. Invests time and money into becoming more attractive, better at speaking with women, and leading an interesting life.  By all accounts, he accomplishes his goal and gets really good at meeting and attracting women.  2

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I Need to Scold Her!

I had a story relayed to me yesterday about a guy who we will call Kyle.  Kyle is struggling. He was homeschooled and got constant validation from his parents that he was never weaned off of. As a result, he is extremely insecure.  In social situations, he commonly brings up the hot girls he’s sleeping

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When Your Gf Has Homemade Porn

I can’t remember where I saw this on the timeline a few weeks ago. But it was something like the title of this email suggests: guy finds homemade porn of his girlfriend with an ex. She’s moaning and doing the whole nine yards. Pretty jarring. Understandably, the guy is wondering what to do. Should he

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Is Relationship Stress Bad?

Most people reading the title probably wonder how this is even a question. Obviously you don’t want a “stressful” relationship. Your relationship should be easy. But the truth is that not all stress is created equally. When we say “I’m stressed,” we tend to mean things aren’t going well. It usually means that we feel

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