PRESELECTION: THE FIRST PILLAR OF ATTRACTION In the last article in this series, we gave an overview of the three pillars of attraction. In this one, we’re going to zoom in on the first of those pillars: Preselection. Let’s get right into it. The Two Halves Of Preselection Within each pillar of attraction, there are a number of […]
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THE THREE PILLARS OF ATTRACTION I’ve been often asked, “Pat, if there is ONE thing you need to do to succeed in dating, what is it?” Generally, my go to response is this article. There is no question attraction lives and dies on the strength of a man’s frame. It is the safest and most
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THE REAL REASON WOMEN LOVE RICH GUYS There are many things in the dating world under dispute. One of them is not. Women love rich guys. Like status, money is an aphrodisiac to women. Ugly, out of shape men “punch above their weight” (literally) with pretty women so long as they have money. And society’s
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THE 2 TYPES OF MEN AND WOMEN (AND THE GAMMA MALE AND FEMALE) In the “manosphere,” two main types of men are bandied about frequently. These archetypes are simplistic, but often useful: Alphas and Betas. Many of you may be familiar with them, but for those who aren’t, the concept behind these archetypes is simple.
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LEARN TO SAY NO AND DO WHAT YOU WANT It was a warm, fall Sunday afternoon – and we had arrived. Mike’s Seafood. The *best* seafood on the Jersey Shore. Kate was eager for some crab legs. Me, not so much. Normally, I’d be right there with her – but the tedious labor of extracting
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5 RULES FOR GREAT SEX IN A RELATIONSHIP Whether married for decades or recently exclusive, almost every man has at some point asked himself the same question: Why won’t she sleep with me? It’s a question that boggles the mind of even the most intelligent man. He thinks he’s doing all the right things, but rather than
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SHOULD YOU BE VULNERABLE? One word has become practically dogma in relationship advice today: Vulnerability. And I get why. Up until recent decades, men were absolutely incompetent when it came to communicating their feelings. They were trained to keep quiet – that sharing was weakness. If they were hurting, they either lashed out or shut
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Hey fam – today we’ve got a something special for you… a guest post from an up-and-coming entrepreneur, Marshall Cook, about moving on from a relationship when you have no closure. Marshall works with millennials who want a leg up in their branding and who are looking to achieve high-performance. I’ve been following him the last two months and there’s no
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5 REASONS TO BE A MAN OF INTEGRITY The dating world is filled with different conversations about the things you need to do to attract women. For instance: Pick Up Artists focus on the techniques. Red Pill guys love to talk about sexual dynamics and masculinity. The spirituality community is all about unconditional love, communication,
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THINKING OF BREAKING UP? ASK THIS QUESTION FIRST It’s no secret – many guys have MAJOR problems with their girlfriends. I hear it all the time: Constantly getting nagged… Not having the sex they want… Frequent fighting… Boredom and lack of fulfillment… To be fair these are things common to most relationships at least for
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