THINKING OF BREAKING UP? ASK THIS QUESTION FIRST It’s no secret – many guys have MAJOR problems with their girlfriends. I hear it all the time: Constantly getting nagged… Not having the sex they want… Frequent fighting… Boredom and lack of fulfillment… To be fair these are things common to most relationships at least for […]
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GROWTH IS PAINFUL I talk a lot here about aspirations. What you’ll get if you do this, say this, or think this way. And I do it for good reason: it’s positive. It gets you excited. It makes you want to take action. Rarely, however, do I talk about what you will give up. And
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HOW TO CONTROL YOUR IMPULSE “Want” is an amorphous word. People “want” to lose weight – and yet they also “want” to eat that bag of potato chips. People “want” to talk to that attractive girl – and yet they also “want” to avoid getting rejected. Which want is the real want? And if one
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THE RIGHT DATING FRAME People often ask me what they need to say to attract a girl. And like a good dating coach, I give them some specific tips and help them to troubleshoot their situations. But the truth is I’m lying. Yes, there are best practices – yes, some things that stack the deck against
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SHOULD I COMMIT? If you walk down the street, particularly in a big city, one thing stands out to you immediately. Sex. It’s on billboards, with hot girls in lingerie posing seductively. It’s on the sidewalk, with long legs, make-up, and a smile. And when you get home, it’s online with the click of a
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TRUST IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN LOVE You’ll often hear a lot of relationship experts and coaches talk about love in glowing terms. “Love is everything.” “Spread love everywhere.” “Love yourself.” “There’s so much love here.” And I agree. Love is a beautiful thing. But when it comes to relationships, love – while necessary – plays
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DO LOOKS MATTER? THE UNCOMFORTABLE TRUTH If there’s one thing people hate talking about, it’s looks. And I get why. Looks are superficial. Physical attractiveness is subjective. And as a society we already assign far too much value to how people appear, and not enough to who they are. Why talk about it more? Why ask
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WHY SMART PEOPLE ARE STUPID (FOLLOW YOUR INSTINCTS) Have you noticed something about a lot of smart people? They’ve gone to good schools… They’ve studied challenging subjects… They’ve gotten good grades… They keep up-to-date with the world… They are extraordinarily knowledgable, overflowing with facts and data… They are even usually very eloquent… Yet talk to
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MAKING FRIENDS: THE 4 TYPES OF PEOPLE YOU’LL MEET Your social network is perhaps the most important thing you will develop. Friends make the quality of your life better, expand your opportunities both professionally and socially, and are the single best way to meet and date the girls you will connect with the most. Yet
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THE WAY OF THE SUPERIOR EGO (PART 2: UNHEALTHY EGO) In our last post we talked about the difference between a healthy ego and an unhealthy ego, and how a healthy ego can propel you to happiness and freedom. But how do you make the shift? How do you take an unhealthy ego that makes
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