Gonna cut straight to the chase.I’m tired of hearing a phrase uttered all over the “relationships advice” world. A phrase everybody THINKS they want. But, actually ends up only making them miserable. The magic little statement? “Stop having fights!” Pretty crazy to hate on that, right? Who in their everloving mind would want to have […]
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One of the interesting things about relationships are the little habits and patterns people establish over time.Inside jokes, rituals — things that may “kill” the honeymoon phase of novelty, but over time become a source of comfort and grounding. Unfortunately, most develop “bad” habits too — cycles that lead to fights and hurt feelings. I
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I talk a lot about the importance of strategy over tactics. As in, not focusing on short-term actions that undermine the broader goal. Some examples? – Trying to get a girl when the very act of pursuit undermines your frame– Gaming a girl who is not a good fit for your broader relationship goals– Orienting
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One thing that causes more pain to people than anything else is relationship conflict. I’m no stranger to it. Fighting has come with every woman I’ve loved. Of course, the details of these fights might have varied. But the cause of each them was the same. A lack of comfort or desire. (Read: What Women Really Want From Men)
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THE CHICKEN OR THE EGG On June 28th, 1914 Archduke Ferdinand and his wife Sophie were assassinated by a Serbian Nationalist, Gavrilo Princip, in Sarajevo. If you were to ask an average person with basic history knowledge about this event, 99% would tell you this is what “caused World War One.” Perhaps they are right.
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HOW TO HANDLE A MOODY GIRLFRIEND Anybody who’s been in a serious relationship knows: with strong emotions comes intense fights. Once we care about someone and feel comfortable enough with them to not risk “turning them off,” we often start to take them – and their emotional energy – for granted. In other words, when
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HOW TO HANDLE A MOODY GIRLFRIEND Anybody who’s been in a serious relationship knows: with strong emotions comes intense fights. Once we care about someone and feel comfortable enough with them to not risk “turning them off,” we often start to take them – and their emotional energy – for granted. In other words, when
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