HOW TO CONTROL YOUR IMPULSE “Want” is an amorphous word. People “want” to lose weight – and yet they also “want” to eat that bag of potato chips. People “want” to talk to that attractive girl – and yet they also “want” to avoid getting rejected. Which want is the real want? And if one […]
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THE RIGHT DATING FRAME People often ask me what they need to say to attract a girl. And like a good dating coach, I give them some specific tips and help them to troubleshoot their situations. But the truth is I’m lying. Yes, there are best practices – yes, some things that stack the deck against
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SHOULD I COMMIT? If you walk down the street, particularly in a big city, one thing stands out to you immediately. Sex. It’s on billboards, with hot girls in lingerie posing seductively. It’s on the sidewalk, with long legs, make-up, and a smile. And when you get home, it’s online with the click of a
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WHY SMART PEOPLE ARE STUPID (FOLLOW YOUR INSTINCTS) Have you noticed something about a lot of smart people? They’ve gone to good schools… They’ve studied challenging subjects… They’ve gotten good grades… They keep up-to-date with the world… They are extraordinarily knowledgable, overflowing with facts and data… They are even usually very eloquent… Yet talk to
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THE WAY OF THE SUPERIOR EGO (PART 2: UNHEALTHY EGO) In our last post we talked about the difference between a healthy ego and an unhealthy ego, and how a healthy ego can propel you to happiness and freedom. But how do you make the shift? How do you take an unhealthy ego that makes
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THE WAY OF THE SUPERIOR EGO (PART 1: HEALTHY EGO) When I was 16 I got rejected from a college. Not just any college, mind you, but the college of my dreams. A top tier school, one my whole family had gone to – sister, uncle, father, grandfather – and I was supposed to be
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WHY EVERY MAN SHOULD GO HUNTING The woods are lovely, dark, and deep, But I have promises to keep, And miles to go before I sleep, And miles to go before I sleep. ~ Robert Frost, Stopping by the Woods on a Snowy Evening I climbed with my friend up a hill in the cold
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HOW TO BE A LEADER (TRUMP CASE STUDY) Every guy dreams about becoming a leader. It’s in our DNA. We love the thought of people following us, supporting us, admiring us. We love to imagine standing for something against a mighty, oppressive force and conquering it. We love the idea of being our own man,
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Like many other men, I have struggled with destructive habits. I have consumed on a regular basis excessive alcohol, disgusting pornography, mind-numbing television, and emotionally-triggering (and unenlightening) news. I have pursued immature, dramatic women, surrounded myself with negative, stagnant friends, and avoided any sort of movement that made me sweat. And I have suffered as a
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4 HARD LESSONS LEARNED FROM THE PICK UP COMMUNITY There was a time when I counted my days by the number of attractive girls who walked by me, who I let remain unspoken to. It was the number of girls I desired — not just sexually, but socially and romantically — that I couldn’t work up
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