Quick little story I wanted to share with you guys. As many of you know, there’s been a few ripples of problems in the UK with cold approaching. Two court cases are ongoing right now, involving guys who made women uncomfortable during their approach. (For what it’s worth, while the one involving a young anxious […]
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As many of you saw, I put out a few tweets the other day re: how “not crying” doesn’t make you tough, it’s a sign of emotional repression: Some of you wanted me to elaborate on this a bit. Honestly I think my comments speak for themselves. Guys around these parts are so insecure about how
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So the other weekend comi-con hit NYC, and I found myself at their official afterparty. Full disclosure: I know absolutely nothing about comics. Seen barely any superhero movies, the genre just doesn’t do all that much for me. But, a friend of mine was at the main event, dressed up as “fat thor” (absolutely incredible
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A reader writes in: Hey Pat Morning mate. I was reading some of your stuff on your webpage on dynamics I understand it from an early POV or mid POV in a relationship, but im questioning if suppose you’re in a long relationship +7-10 yrs what happens if embers die down how does a man rekindle
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So end of last week while talking about the extremely fucked up court case in the UK re: a socially anxious kid getting prosecuted for talking to a girl, I promised I’d tell a tale about a similar experience yours truly went through. An experience that helped me to understand just how the above court case
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Had a conversation with a client recently who has been going through a bit of dilemma. Long story short, he’s had a girlfriend for awhile now. Sweet, pretty girl. Good values. Perfect wife material. But he’s not really happy being with her. Her personality is a bit plain and boring. Anyway, enter this girl he
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So word on the street, a big day of confusion and mourning for the daygame community. Tom Toreo, a brit who built his reputation as the top disciple of the original daygamers — Yad and Andy Yosha — has gone into digital hiding. The reason, it seems? Some guy he had worked with, and had
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Shorter email today, since we’ve been getting a bit long-winded recently. I was out saturday night with my wife, people watching at a local yuppie bar. I haven’t sat out in such a place in awhile, so was good to remind myself what the vibe is like. Took me back BIG TIME to my “glory
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So earlier this week my wife and I watched one of the worst “chick flicks” either of us have ever seen: “Letters to Juliet” I am going to ruin this stupid movie for you, so don’t read this email if you actually want to watch it for some reason. Ok, so the main protagonist is
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A reader writes in: So about two months ago I cut out drinking completely from my life – not that I used to extensively drink but it it didn’t serve me at all even in social occasions – it brought my energy down. I’m much more energetic, intuitive, mindful & aware when I’m out with
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