My first job ever was at the Jersey Shore, inside a 99 cent store warehouse. While the front of the store was fairly generic — pretty young girls, either local teens or eastern europeans on work visas — the back was filled with less presentable characters. But by choosing to work in the engine room of […]
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Had an interesting conversation with a client the other day that brought up a subject I’ve rarely discussed. How much does a woman’s “first” (guy she lost her virginity to) leave an impression on her psyche? Is he that much harder for her to get over? Generally, this question emerges with a degree of concern.
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One of the biggest difficulties guys have in dating isn’t understanding ideas around attraction conceptually. It’s calibrating them effectively in practice. Which is why I wanted to highlight two tweets from the great Nash I saw on Twitter recently: These are masterful examples of how to handle two of the biggest “disrespectful” behaviors guys encounter
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Recently had a tweet go viral about a girl getting some street food: It’s funny what gets attention and what doesn’t. This was a throwaway comment, but apparently the last thing you want to do today is come between a western woman and her psychiatric medication. YetI stand by what I said about more and
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Traditionalists are generally against moving in with a woman until you’re married. This is one of those things that I used to think was silly, over-conservatism, but as I’ve gotten older, I can see a lot of truth to it. Because something very dangerous happens when you move in with a woman. I’m not talking
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As you obviously know, I work with guys on their dating and relationship problems. Sometimes these problems have to do with attracting women. Sometimes the issue is attracting the right women. Other times it’s about keeping the right woman attracted. And still other times, it’s simply about breaking away from the wrong woman. (NOTE: I go into
The Main Problem I See With Most Men Today Read More »
As many of you know, there was recently a big “to do” about Steven Crowder and the leaked altercation he had with his wife. I won’t go into that in too much detail here, as I already said pretty much everything I needed to say about it in my recent video. (WATCH: Is Steven Crowder Abusive? |
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A very interesting reddit post made the rounds on Twitter yesterday: Essentially, a guy and a girl get together, have a chat early on about “notch count.” His is 5, hers is 33. It’s a big disparity, but it’s processed and they move on. Fast-forward 3 years, and they are now married and expecting their first child.
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Last night, like most nights, my daughter broke down crying. It was time for my wife to put my son to bed, which meant “mama” — the person she loved most in the world — was once again going to leave her. My daughter is a nearly 2 and a half, and this sort of
Your Capacity To Stay Read More »
A reader writes in: I’m nearing the end of grad school and took some time to isolate and think, take inventory. I realized I’ve become miserable to the fact that I have no social circle anymore. In high school I was in the football team, in college I made new friends at the boxing gym
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