DO LOOKS MATTER? THE UNCOMFORTABLE TRUTH If there’s one thing people hate talking about, it’s looks. And I get why. Looks are superficial. Physical attractiveness is subjective. And as a society we already assign far too much value to how people appear, and not enough to who they are. Why talk about it more? Why ask […]
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DON’T BE A NICE GUY TO GET GIRLS A recent article on greatist.com talked about how being nice “may be what your dating game is missing,” and is a trait that “seems to translate into physical attraction.” Is it true? Well obviously, women with a healthy sense of self don’t like to be treated badly. They
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HOW TO GET PHYSICAL WITH A GIRL Probably one of the biggest questions as a dating coach I get is, “how do I take things physical with a girl?” And I totally get why. Sure, it can be a bit intimidating to say hello to a girl… Asking for her number… But touching her? Getting
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HOW TO DATE OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE At the end of the day, guys get involved in Pick Up for one and only one reason: They want to do better with women. Whether that means getting a girlfriend or playing the field, Pick Up shows men how to interact with women better, makes them more
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THE POWER OF THE ASSUMPTION WHEN PICKING UP GIRLS Most guys freeze when they see an attractive girl walking down the street. They glance at her, their heart pounds, and they ultimately shy away, wondering what they could possibly say to her to get her interested in them. “Should I ask her a question?” “Do
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HOW TO GET A GIRL’S NUMBER Ahh, phone numbers. One of the most talked about things in the world of dating and relationships. Getting a girl’s number – or in Pick Up parlance, “number closing” – is such an important stage that many men view it as a milestone as significant as kissing or sleeping with
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3 REASONS DEFIANT DONALD TRUMP GETS HOT CHICKS This past weekend I was at a beach bar with a couple of friends and Kate. It was Labor Day weekend and the place was packed, but fortunately, Kate and I managed to take control of a meant-to-be-decorative life guard stand, which not only provided us with seats but a perfect view of
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4 HARD LESSONS LEARNED FROM THE PICK UP COMMUNITY There was a time when I counted my days by the number of attractive girls who walked by me, who I let remain unspoken to. It was the number of girls I desired — not just sexually, but socially and romantically — that I couldn’t work up
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THE SECRET TO CONFIDENCE I talk a lot about things you can do to get a girl. The right way to approach her… The best way to talk to her… The appropriate way to express your desire for her… And they’re all, obviously, very useful. They teach you what to do and give you the
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THE TRUTH ABOUT REJECTION This past weekend Kate and I were in San Diego, killing some time on the beach before our flight home, when we saw some high school kids playing volleyball. For those of you who don’t know, Kate and I love volleyball, and we had been itching to play for months. This
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