How To Handle Moody Girlfriends

HOW TO HANDLE A MOODY GIRLFRIEND Anybody who’s been in a serious relationship knows: with strong emotions comes intense fights. Once we care about someone and feel comfortable enough with them to not risk “turning them off,” we often start to take them – and their emotional energy – for granted. In other words, when […]

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Is Pat Stedman A Misogynist?

IS PAT STEDMAN A MISOGYNIST? One of the most interesting and lovely things that’s happened to me recently as I’ve become a bit more outspoken about my views on dating (and more) is that I’ve been called a misogynist. Is it true? Am I really a misogynist? Well that depends. Truth be told, I’m not

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The Secret to Confidence

THE SECRET TO CONFIDENCE I talk a lot about things you can do to get a girl. The right way to approach her… The best way to talk to her… The appropriate way to express your desire for her… And they’re all, obviously, very useful.  They teach you what to do and give you the

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Why Women Act Crazy

WHY WOMEN ACT CRAZY I was talking to a friend the other week about men and women (incidentally one of my favorite topics), when the conversation took a turn towards the idea of “sensitivity.” If you’ve been following the “great war of the sexes” as I have been, you’d know that sensitivity is, well, a very

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Saved By The Suck

WHY YOU NEED CONSISTENCY I’m writing this post under duress.  I really don’t want to do it.  Each line seems worse than the one before, and the whole thing feels forced. Why am I wasting my time (and yours) with this? One word: Consistency. Probably one of the most underrated words out there. If Step

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The Truth About Rejection

THE TRUTH ABOUT REJECTION This past weekend Kate and I were in San Diego, killing some time on the beach before our flight home, when we saw some high school kids playing volleyball. For those of you who don’t know, Kate and I love volleyball, and we had been itching to play for months.  This

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