A very interesting chart outlining stated and revealed preferences among men and women turned up on my X feed this morning. It’s a shame that these were aggregated together among men and women rather than broken down. But I think actually what is most remarkable about it is how — for the most part — […]
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A reader asks: What’s your advice to guys who keep getting in relationships that go nowhere? I keep dating the wrong chicks or women who aren’t ready for a relationship. From what I gathered from further questions, this guy is successful but still in the young man partying phase, so he attracts a specific type.
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I had a story relayed to me yesterday about a guy who we will call Kyle. Kyle is struggling. He was homeschooled and got constant validation from his parents that he was never weaned off of. As a result, he is extremely insecure. In social situations, he commonly brings up the hot girls he’s sleeping
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Most people reading the title probably wonder how this is even a question. Obviously you don’t want a “stressful” relationship. Your relationship should be easy. But the truth is that not all stress is created equally. When we say “I’m stressed,” we tend to mean things aren’t going well. It usually means that we feel
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I don’t talk about business often, but looking back on my first couple months back in biz, there are a few lessons I want to point to. I had a lot of clients from before I went away renewing with me, but also some new clients signing up. Of the 4 new clients that signed
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This tweet on “Chad2Dad” getting divorced by his Filipino wife went viral the other day: First things first… I don’t know “Chad2Dad.” Before this I’d never heard of him. But without piling on his misery, from what I’ve seen so far, this guy absolutely deserves what he’s getting. And I’m not just saying that because
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The internet had mixed reactions to this tweet a few weeks back: To be honest though, I was expecting more pushback than I got. So either this is more true than I realized, or people (for once on Twitter) were just being polite. I only got one comment telling me I sucked in bed! I
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I can’t remember where I saw this on the timeline a few weeks ago. But it was something like the title of this email suggests: guy finds homemade porn of his girlfriend with an ex. She’s moaning and doing the whole nine yards. Pretty jarring. Understandably, the guy is wondering what to do. Should he
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As promised, I wanted to elaborate a bit on the tweet I made last night about women sleeping with broke boys: I’ve been getting the impression a lot of guys are annoyed about this phenomenon. You go out and work hard, make money, become successful, and a woman turns you down to sleep with a
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A reader writes in: Hi Pat. Hope this finds you well. I wanted to ask you about some interactions I had with a girl I know socially and how if at all to proceed. I will try and be as detailed as possible, but if you feel anything is missing, ask and I will try
