February 2021

What The Movies Get Wrong About Love

Hope you enjoyed yesterday’s breakdown of the men in Sixteen Candles. But there was another element I wanted to mention from the film… Because while it’s fun and useful to talk about archetypes, the reality is that movies are a snapshot in time. They don’t capture an individual’s growth, or the evolution of a relationship. They take a moment,

What The Movies Get Wrong About Love Read More »

Anxiety And Your Needs

Got a question from the great Matias about something I tweeted last fall: There are two parts to the answer. But first, we need to make a distinction. Because there is a difference between GENERAL procrastination and SPECIFIC procrastination. General procrastination is an AVOIDANCE pattern. It’s an indication that there is a part of you who does

Anxiety And Your Needs Read More »