Last Sunday was Latin Easter. And now that I have kids, I have the privilege of directing an easter egg hunt.

My daughter is just over 2, and while this is her third “hunt” technically, this is the first year she’s really gotten into it.

We spent a solid 20 minutes searching for eggs around the yard, and that wasn’t enough. Once we had finished she wanted “more.”

So at my uncle’s that afternoon, we put a few more eggs around and she searched for those too.

As she was nearing the end of her hunt, I decided to tease her a bit, and started throwing the eggs in the basket around the yard when she wasn’t looking to prolong the hunt. Basically, every egg she got ended up back no the lawn. I’d point these eggs out and she’d rush to get them; meanwhile I’d throw the ones she had just brought in the basket onto the ground again.

This went on for about 10 minutes, until I saw she was running out of breath, and felt bad and stopped doing it. “OK, you got all the eggs, we’re all done now!”

But rather than be relieved, she was visibly disappointed.

Now, my daughter isn’t dumb. I’m sure on some level she knew what I was doing. In fact, I’m fairly certain she noticed one or two times me actually throwing the egg.

But she didn’t care. She pretended to not notice. The “game” was fun for her.

She wanted to be deceived. Even though it was causing her to run around like a crazy person.

It reminded of me how so many guys operate when it comes to women.

If a girl lights them up and gives them a high no other woman has given them, they will IGNORE huge inconsistencies in her behavior later on. They will rationalize away the fact that she is always sick or busy and can’t meet up, is lying about where she is and what she is doing, because “she wouldn’t keep texting me and telling she wants me if she didn’t.”

These guys get duped, because on a certain level they don’t want the truth. The lie was so appealing, the pain of entertaining the delusion needs to be extremely high before they are willing to burst this bubble.

Anyway, I point this out because I know many of you reading this are either going through this now, or have gone through it in the past.

And I know it sucks.

(Because I’ve gone through it to)

But I want to emphasize… the first step is admitting it and taking responsibility.

If you just blame the woman — “she’s a lying bitch, I can’t believe she did this” — you will fall prey to the same ruse again.

There are bad people in this world, and many beautiful women are among them.

But bad people only take advantage of FOOLS.

And until you can accept you were a fool, and try to understand WHY you were a fool — aka why you were ABLE TO BE manipulated — then history will repeat itself over and over again.

“OK Pat, I get it, so what do I do to learn?”

Simple.

Buy my masterclass.

Because Module 1 covers how YOU think — including your bad beliefs and delusions that make you weak and vulnerable to manipulation.

And Module 2 covers “dark female psychology” and “girl game” — or how women capitalize on your weak spots to control and extract value from you.

Good “preventative medicine,” but arguably more important after such an incident as you are now “emotionally primed” to see the material in more than just an academic way. It will resonate with you.

And that’s just 1/3rd of the entire course, which also covers dating and relationship mastery.

Buy it here: https://masterclass.patstedman.com/

Reminder all purchases are deducted from coaching.

– Pat

PS As you likely saw in an earlier email, on June 5th – my 35th Birthday – I go to trial for non-violent charges related to January 6th.

I am looking at years in prison if convicted of all counts. I continue to stand by my not guilty plea entered in court from the outset, and given the facts am confident about exoneration at trial.

The legal fees, however, are extreme and will total at least $180,000. And in the event of a worst case scenario, this burden would leave my wife and children in difficult straights as I am the primary breadwinner.

The masterclass is a great way for you to help me and help yourself. But if it’s out of reach or not what you need right now, please consider donating separately to my legal defense fund.

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