psychological attraction

The 3 Dimensions of Attraction

Those of you familiar with my work should be familiar at this point with my work on the three pillars of attraction. (I gave a great speech on it in 2019 at the 21 Convention – if you missed it, check it out) However, if you’ve been following me recently on twitter, you’d also see …

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Advanced Mate Guarding

Yesterday we talked about when and how your girl will “jump ship.” Today we’ll talk about how to make sure that essentially will never happen. Let me tell you a story about a friend of mine. He’s a decent looking guy, in shape, has great game… and at the time had a successful, but still …

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The Battle of the Personas

Yesterday we mentioned how both Biological and Psychological attraction have a Persona element to them. I’m going to explain why this makes sense… and why it matters. To take a step back: You can look at Status/Wealth/Looks (Preselection, Biological) and Type/Values/Growth (Personality, Psychological) as being relatively concrete things. Persona, on the other hand, is more …

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Personality – The Third Pillar of Attraction (Part 2 – Psychological Attraction)

PART 2: PSYCHOLOGICAL ATTRACTION As we discussed in Part 1, pheromones and intelligence lay the ground work for Chemistry to occur. But it is psychology itself that brings two people together, and that is what we will explore now. Our minds are wired in distinct ways, and that wiring determines whether we are drawn to …

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