There are two primary philosophies on how to get the relationship you want with a woman. The first is to focus on developing desire. Become a G who every girl would want to be with: a man with the looks, lifestyle, and game. And then develop an abundance when it comes to women, so that …
I’m often asked about “girl game” and whether it is something you should be worried about in a woman. My stock reply is that there is nothing wrong with game — indeed, us men enjoy “girl game,” and we fall more for girls who have it. The issue isn’t the game itself, but what a girl’s intention …
This is a topic I haven’t much explored at this point. And what follows in this email will be far from the definitive answer on it. But I wanted to talk a little about dread game and sex. It’s commonly accepted wisdom in red pill circles that some level of dread is necessary if you …
This might be a weird one for some of you, but after tweeting this out this morning, thought I’d elaborate: As I get deeper and deeper into energy and intimacy, I’ve started to think more about what it means to be a man, and what it means to be a woman. There is a polarity …
Hey Pat, I was wondering if you’d be able to help with a small annoyance with my girlfriend before it turns into a problem. Here it goes, I understand if there’s only so much you’re willing to do. The short story is that every time my girlfriend and I aren’t in physical proximity with one another …
I’m back from the grave, friends… and have a LOT to share with you in the coming weeks. In the meantime, though, an email to get you riled up. So the other day on twitter I posted something many were either confused about, or didn’t like: It’s funny that some of the comments accused me …
Short email today, since Rome beckons. I sent out a tweet earlier in the day that DIDN’T get a big response… although smart minds (such as AJA Cortes) immediately picked up that it wasn’t something to scoff at: “The lower your consciousness, the more the stick works over the carrot.” Pause and reflect on that …
Now, if you’ve been following along, you know by now I’m not one of those “red pill” guys who is constantly going off about modern women. And unlike many, I’m not anti-marriage. But as I’ve propped myself more and more into the “serious relationship” space… and observed the long-term marriages of many close to me… …
One thing that causes more pain to people than anything else is relationship conflict. I’m no stranger to it. Fighting has come with every woman I’ve loved. Of course, the details of these fights might have varied. But the cause of each them was the same. A lack of comfort or desire. (Read: What Women Really Want From Men) …
THINKING OF BREAKING UP? ASK THIS QUESTION FIRST It’s no secret – many guys have MAJOR problems with their girlfriends. I hear it all the time: Constantly getting nagged… Not having the sex they want… Frequent fighting… Boredom and lack of fulfillment… To be fair these are things common to most relationships at least for …
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